I’m at the Blood and Cancer Disease Center getting my tri-weekly Herceptin treatment. Three recliners down from me is a woman with a dark pink handkerchief tied on her balding head. I guess that she is in her 40’s. She looks drained, determined and focused — ready and only slightly anxious. She’s reading a Readers Digest, using her blood work report as a bookmark.

These are all things that I noticed only after I was able to draw my attention away from the contents of the bag hanging from her bag pole: three large syringes filled with bright red liquid.

Adriamycin — the Red Devil.

It is a strange revulsion I have to that stuff; a kind of subconscious revulsion that makes me feel antsy and nervous, like it might somehow get out of its bag and into my veins if I don’t keep a close eye on it. But while I can hardly tear my eyes away from from the syringes hanging there, I also don’t want to look at them, as if, perhaps, the vile stuff they contain might notice me staring at it.

As I consider the immediate effects of Adriamycin on the body and the long term effects it has had on my heart, and as I begin to recall my worst days with the stuff, I remember with total clarity why I decided to have this surgery coming up on Tuesday in the first place. My uncertainty subsides, although only slightly, and I begin to feel more like I am doing the right thing. I am a little less apprehensive and a little more confident.

The nurse takes down the bag with the syringes and sits down next to the woman in the dark pink handkerchief. The nurse begins her slow push, a saline drip diluting the life sucking fluid to a slightly less corrosive consistency.

I cringe and hope that I what I am doing is enough.